Just phone sex, and some chatting) and my girlfriend who lives with me found out and threatened to leave
Try to give your boyfriend some space to cool off first before attempting to talk things out with him and explain your side of the situation since he may be more likely to listen to you then.
Hey,i cheated on my boyfriend on January and he found out last week. he wants to break up with me but o don’t want to let that happen. i kissed my old crush at a party and apparently they knew each other. my boyfriend has been talking to me ever since he tried to break up with me and i don’t want to give him space because i m afraid that he will learn to leave without me and we would never get back together
Without giving him space, it’s very unlikely that he’ll be able to fully forgive you and let go of what happened even if he says he does, since seeing you each time is going to simply remind him of your actions as long as he hasn’t had the space to process his emotions properly.
I have apologised to her told her I love her
I cheated (not really badly. Nothing physical with anyone. Technically she broke up, and was very angry, but still lives with me. I’ve quit drinking, and started going to counseling and got us couples counseling which we’ve gone to one appointment so far.