“I thought it made me unlovable.” Here’s how I fixed my relationship with casual sex
Of course, sleeping with numerous men while dating is pretty normal, but women rarely talk or write about it. Why? Because there’s a massive stigma around it.
We still expect women to only have sex for love, and if it’s anything outside of that, it makes us uncomfortable.
When I first began dating, I was always monogamous to one person, no matter how casual the relationship was. Even when they made it quite clear that they were sleeping with other people.
Eventually, I got into the pattern of dating multiple people at once because it meant I didn’t get super invested in someone after one date.
I was less likely to spend all day waiting for a text back if I was texting multiple people, and it helped me keep a clear head about the whole thing.